TRUE
LOVE
True Love is very different from the love that one
proclaims in this world, though the love that is proclaimed in this world is in
True Love, it is not the same thing.
In this world, what people call “love” varies from
moment to moment. If someone doesn’t do what you want, or leaves you or
doesn’t behave the way you want them to, then “love” is removed and even
sometimes replaced by hate (which is still Love just riding on the emotion of
anger).
Look at all the marriages that end in divorce, do
you know two people that were madly in love only later to find they can barely
stand the sight of the other. It is not that they didn’t Love one
another, it is that they chose the concept of “love,” which is love described
by those in this world, over True Love. True Love doesn’t mean you don’t
get hurt, it doesn’t mean you stay together, it doesn’t mean anything at all …
True Love just IS. It is when you can sit alone silently and look
honestly at those that have touched your life ... everyone of them and know
that it is Love that brought you together and it was the ideas of what Love
should “look” like that pulled one apart.
Ever find yourself saying, “well, if he would only
do this or she would only do that, if everything was only different from how it
is, then I would love them.” But Love doesn’t have rules only you
do. Love doesn’t pick and choose who it Loves, only you do. Love
just IS and it has no boundaries and it has no limits. It has been the
acceptance of the concept of what “love” should look like that hides that
everything; is in Love.
You are in a constant state of Love. But when
you find that the one you say “I Love You” too, leaves or dies or something
happens to that one that you have projected “love” onto (and this isn’t saying
there is anything wrong with doing that, just become aware that you are) and
you find that you cannot keep anything in this world, everything disappears and
reappears as something else, then when that one disappears, what remains is ...
Love.
The pain you may feel at the loss; is also
Love. Sorrow is Love. Happiness is Love. Joy is Love.
Anger is Love. See we only want (usually) the Happiness or the Joy
and Excitement of Love, but also the Sorrow, the Pain, the Depression of Love
is just as important because all show the depths of Love. So when the one
you love comes ... you experience the bliss of Happiness, Joy and Loving and
when they go; you experience Pain, the Sadness, the Sorrow of the same.
As you begin to see this as a truth, then you can begin
to put your attention on what the concept “love” appears IN … TRUE LOVE. It is not outside of you, you are IN IT.
If Love is the True State (which it is … without
opposite) then it does not come and go, it is always there.
The way to begin to see this is to think of your
child, if you have one, or someone that you love unconditionally. If you
love them unconditionally, there is nothing they could do in this world to
change that. So now you need to begin to look at “is there anything they
could do in this world to change that?”
If they could, then it is not Love.
True Love does not change because of actions or
anything in this world. The closer you get to unconditional love the
closer you get to Knowing True Love. And unconditional love begins to
grow as you allow it to grow in you.
It
also spreads compassion.
Not everyone will see things the way you do, but you
have the space in you for all things to be. Let it spread out from your
immediate family to everyone that comes in your orbit.
It doesn’t mean you have to do anything any other
way than you always have, it just allows the space for people to be as they
are. You will begin to stop wanting to change them, because you know that
you love them in spite of how they are. It doesn’t mean you won’t act the
same way you always have around them, but something in you will begin to pay
attention to what everything appears IN, which is LOVE.
LOVE
HAS NO OPPOSITE.